If it molted two days ago, leave it alone. Give it at least 2 weeks or so before you feed it, touch it, or mess with it in any way.
They're definitely handleable, although generally skittish from my experiences. Like I said though, wait a while, the exoskeleton probably isn't anywhere near being hardened yet, especially not if it's an adult. The handling rules are basically the same with all tarantulas, just be cautious and use common sense. Although I fully support and strongly encourage handing, I'd say that if you're nervous about it, then don't. Think about respect for the animal.